Advertorial : SG Happy Darts !! =)

Recently I've picked up a NEW HOBBY!! Life in Singapore has been pretty mundane. Aside from the usual shopping, clubbing, drinking which I enjoy, I couldn't possibly do those everyday! Boyfriend isnt exactly very free to do other sports with me during his off days, and so I wanted to look for a new hobby to pick up together with him which he would enjoy and it wouldn't be too tiring for him.

One day, my ex-colleague Sabbie decides to bring me down with her after work to join her for dinner and a game of DARTS. I didn't think much of it then and agreed to join since I had nothing on. After throwing a few rounds of darts, without saying, I GOT HOOKED!! Its super ADDICTIVE!!

And so since then, almost every week I've been playing. But of cause it wouldn't be fun to always use her darts or the house darts to play as the weight and type of darts are different and I would need time to get accustomed to it. And so I decided to get my own set of personal DARTS! And of cause I bought a set for Boyfy too!! 

Heres Our DARTS! I bought some extra shafts and tips and flights too!! Its fun to change them around and personalize and customize them to your mood, preference, liking and throwing style! =)

Some of the places I would frequent these days for DARTS would include, DARTS SOUL @ Bugis+ , Alps Cafe , Club Winners , Cafe Le Circuit , etc.

DARTS and DARTS accessories sold in some of these places are pretty costly and so here is an online store / blogshop / webstore which is just set up specially for all you DARTERS out there!! It is newly set up and still constantly updating the store to include more items. From BARRELS to SHAFTS to FLIGHTS to TIPS to DART TOOLS and CASES. Do visit SG HAPPY DARTS to support them so they can bring in more items and get them for you at a better price NOW!

http://sghappydarts.blogspot.com

OR 

Visit their Facebook Page at http://facebook.com/sghappydarts !! Do remember to click LIKE and SHARE this to your friends whom are looking for a new inexpensive hobby!! =)

September!! A month of MANY happenings! Both Good and Bad!

This is sooooo backdated. But still I would like to blog about this and keep a memory of it.

SEPTEMBER. A month of many events and happenings. Lets start with the BAD, as I usually like to end my post on a positive note, so I'll end with the GOOD! =)

The BAD.

- I'm out of job AGAIN. (this is a story for another day. irks me to even think about it.)

- I lost my car number plate. Fell out while I was driving on the expressway after a tree branch flew over and hit my car.

- Had to send my car for the usual servicing.

- Car radiator leak and other parts decides to spoil on me and had me stuck on the expressway for 1hr waiting for it to cook down before we drive off to the nearest petrol kiosk to fill it up with water and I had to spend money to get it changed and fixed.

- Road tax and insurance and season parking are all due at the same time.

Conclusion: Income stopped. Expenses increase like nobody's business! Financial Crisis for me!!

The GOOD.

- My birthday

- My bf's birthday

- Trip to Batam with boyfy

- Set up a new business venture partnering with boyfy

Will blog about each individual GOOD event soon! =)

Stay tuned!! ♥♡

Have you met "The One' in your life?

Its amazing to find someone who u can see everyday, be with them everyday, spend every minute of everyday together and once you are apart you still start missing them.

When you find someone like that, dont let them go. Treasure them and every moment with them. Because its this person that you can be sure to spend the rest of your life with and still feel happy and loved just being with them! :))
 
Anyway came across this article online which I thought was really good, therefore decided I wanted to share this with all my readers as well! =)

23 Signs They're The One

1. You have the same sense of humor and they make you laugh all the time. 
2. You’ve vomited or other such bodily function all over them and they’ve been totally chill about it. 
3. You believe they are really talented and they also think you’re something special. 
4. You support each other in your goals and endeavors. 
5. If you have a problem or complaint, you know they’ll listen and take you seriously. 
6. You never feel manipulated or messed with. You never feel guilted into doing something you don’t want to do or pressured to be anyone but yourself. 
7. They regularly do a nice thing you’ve specifically said you like for you. Whether it’s buying you chocolate or rubbing your shoulders after you get home from work. They just know that’s what you want and they do it. 
8. They love your family and your family loves them. (Or if your family are horrible racists/homophobes, then the opposite is a sign!) 
9. They don’t feel the need to go out and meet new people all the time. They’re perfectly happy sitting on the couch with you and ripping on TV shows. 
10. They’ve at least attempted to cook for you. Even if it was burnt. 
11. When you’re telling a story, they pay attention. They don’t look at the TV or pick up their phone. They really look you in the face and hear you. 
12. You’ve shared some bad experiences and you feel like the relationship has only become stronger as a result. 
13. You communicate during sex about what you like and want and you feel comfortable doing so.
14. You find them interesting as a person. You feel inspired by them and their enthusiasm and passion. 
15. You enjoy sharing your hobbies and interests and music and books with them because they’ll be kind about them and even get into them with you, maybe. 
16. You can cuddle in silence and be totally comfortable. 
17. When you go out together, you have fun. There’s no fights or drunken misunderstandings. You just have fun. 
18. You compromise without much complaining. Sometimes you go see the cliche indie film he wants to see, sometimes you go see the foreign film she wants to see. 
19. Your friends like each other and you can throw mutual parties with no problems. Your friends also like your partner and your partner likes them. 
20. You’re able to do your own thing and be independent without them making you feel bad about it or whining that they have nothing to do without you. You’re able to be your own people. 
21. They compliment you. Even if it’s just, “Hey, you look nice today.” They don’t take it for granted that you “know how they feel.” They want to tell you because it’s nice and feels good. 
22. You make plans for the future and stick to them. You know they are reliable and that you can count on them to be there for you. 
23. They relieve the stress in your life, not add to it. Thank god.

Extracted from: http://thoughtcatalog.com/2013/23-signs-theyre-the-one/

Yeap! He's 'The One"!!

I've met mine, and I hope all of you have met yours too! =)

[Overdued Post] Mummy's Birthday Dinner 3June2o13

Happy Birthday Mummy Dearest!! ♥

It was a very nice pleasant and happy day for all of us! Its the first ever dinner that my boyfriend joined. Not knowing what to eat since all of us couldnt decide between a few choices, we decided to go with bf's suggestion, Holiday Inn Park View, Window on the park cafe restaurant, for dinner buffet~

It wasnt our first time there, food was alright. But the companion was fantastic, everyone chatted with everyone, and I'm really glad my family could get along with my bf and he was also able to sit in comfortably. =)

  the food~

 My personal prawn peeler~ Hees~ =) He's the sweetest always~ ♥

♥ My Family~

 All my LOVE ♥ ones~ =)

1 of Top 10 Relationship Wreckers : Social Networking Site / Internet

Today I would like to blog about something that I feel is a serious problem among people these days. Internet is inevitably something important is everyone's lives in today's society. Without the internet we would be very outdated and wont be able to keep up with a lot of things.

I too agree that I'm a internet or social network (facebook) addict. There is absolutely nothing wrong with it if you are using it rightly. For example to look for long time friends, or to keep up to date with your friend's well being and life if they were to upload anything. Its also a place for you to update your friends of your life and share your unhappiness or happiness and also to share beautiful photos, quotes and even videos to brighten people's day. Well at least for me that's how I see it.

You may disagree. You may feel like its stalking people. But if you feel so, then all I can say is restrict your profile and don't let people see, or rather you shouldn't even be uploading anything or sharing anything if you feel that your life is intruded because the sole purpose of uploading is to share and let people see it.

Ok back to topic.

I'm not against all social network. Facebook is fine if you are using it appropriately as per mentioned above. But some other site or apps are really purely for knowing more people of the opposite sex and I would say these may be helpful for the singles and lonely. But for people who are attached or married, I feel there are certain things which you should not do or refrain from doing. Its a form of respect for your partners and to give them security. If you love the person enough or am happy in a relationship or marriage, would you still need more guys/girls or rather people of the opposite sex in your life? Face it, what else can you do in there other than adding more people of the other sex and chatting with them? The site or app is boring if you are just clicking around not doing anything else. So what else can you be doing in there?

I personally am an ex social networking addict, and know a couple of my ex boyfriends from there, so I know exactly what these sites are for. If you are lucky, you may find your life time partner there. Otherwise in most cases, you will lose them the way you find them. Most people who chats people up dont only click on 1 person and fall in love at first sight. If they can chat you up, chances are they are chatting and adding many other people as well. Well unless you are really lucky which is rarely the case but I would not totally rule it out.

Here I would like to share a little something I read on another website to add on to my post.

Three: The Internet (NEW ENTRY)
The arguments are not just how much time is spent on the Internet - for work or pleasure - but about starting deep 'friendships' in cyberspace and viewing pornography. Research among 1,500 adults found that 46 per cent believed emails, texting and chat rooms had led to a big rise in infidelity; 30 per cent had used electronic communication to flirt, or to sustain an affair; 22 per cent of them had done it every day and 62 per cent had done it once a week.
In the past, few men had access to porn beyond top-shelf publications and most were too embarrassed to buy them. Today's Internet porn is more extreme: we are bombarded with adverts for it. What's more, the technically competent woman can trace every site her man has visited.
Solve it: These problems need to be nipped in the bud. Long hours on the computer at home are a signal that something is wrong. Don't ignore your instincts. Ask your partner why they need to spend so much time consuming 'virtual' life. They could be unhappy with your relationship together and the time on the computer is really a cry for help.
So what kinds of Internet friendships are acceptable? Forums with a special interest - like Startrek or dog training - are fairly harmless but be wary of friendships made on general chat sites.
Pornography is a tough one because everybody has different standards. Some couples decide to share it together and incorporate some of the ideas they discover into their regular lovemaking. Some women tolerate their men occasionally indulging, but ban spending money on the accessing pornography.
Whatever your viewpoint, it is important to really listen to what your partner has to say. Unless you both truly understand each other's opinions, you will not be able to find a working compromise.

Read more: http://www.dailymail.co.uk/home/you/article-390998/Top-10-relationship-wreckers.html#ixzz2ZhPVd4Kh

你为什么说谎

丁噹 - 你為什麼說謊

这次我走开
zhe ci wo zou kai
再没有话要说出来
zai mei you hua yao shuo chu lai
我不想再期待走下去
wo bu xiang zai qi dai zou xia qu
还能多精彩
hai neng duo jing cai
我不了解你怎能心安
wo bu liao jie ni zen neng xin an
也抓不住你的倔强
ye zhua bu zhu ni de jue qiang
可是我知道你
ke shi wo zhi dao ni
你为什么说谎
ni wei shen mo shuo huang

你说你还在
ni shuo ni hai zai
一分一秒也没走开
yi fen yi miao ye mei zou kai
我想留在这里
wo xiang liu zai zhe li
可是这一切已太晚
ke shi zhe yi qie yi tai wan
我不能再像从前一样
wo bu neng zai xiang cong qian yi yang
为我们的明天疯狂
wei wo men de ming tian feng kuang
你不必解释 你为什么说谎
ni bu bi jie shi ni wei shen mo shuo huang

Chorus
你不能说我没有爱过
ni bu neng shuo wo mei you ai guo
说我没等过难过
shuo wo mei deng guo nan guo
我也想说
wo ye xiang shuo
也许能重来我却还是沉默
ye xu neng chong lai wo que hai shi chen mo
你一直问我的心到底在不在
ni yi zhi wen wo de xin dao di zai bu zai
问我怎能不遗憾就丢失爱
wen wo zen neng bu yi han jiu diu shi ai
而我的泪
er wo de lei
怎么就流下来
zen mo jiu liu xia lai

Repeat from beginning

你一直问我的心到底在不在
ni yi zhi wen wo de xin dao di zai bu zai
问我怎能不遗憾就丢失爱
wen wo zen neng bu yi han jiu diu shi ai
而我的泪 怎么就流下来
er wo de lei zen mo jiu liu xia lai

My New Toy & Gadget, Samsung Galaxy S4!!

Been using it for almost a month now, and I totally LOVE it!!

User-friendly, light in weight, big screen, clear and good camera, many free apps, and I can set any song I want as ringtone / alarm tone / message tone! Simply Awesome! Totally NO regrets!

Recommended to all users out there who are thinking of getting a new phone! =)

Both my boyfriend and I migrated over from iPhone together! And we love our new couple phones!! He is not quite a tech-savvy person, but he too felt the Samsung Galaxy S4 is a good phone! We are both happy with our new toy! =)

Farewell to our iPhone(s)! You've served us both well!!~

 

 

Dengue claims life of my dear friend, Ang Yong Han.

It really saddens me when me and my boyfriend were alerted that our dear friend was in critical condition due to dengue on Tuesday night. Right after our usual supper, we rushed down to the hospital right away and our heart sank to see him lying unconsciously on the bed with many tubes running through him, and what really scare us was the tube that was draining out the internal bleeding from him. His blood vessels had burst and he was bleeding internally. Doctors and nurses were busy walking in and out of his ward with packets of blood and stuff and trying hard to save him. We stayed for a couple of hours, but alas we had to leave as we were all tired and some had to work. Our only regret was when we found out that he passed on only an hour or less after we left the hospital. If only we had stayed a little longer.... Sigh.....

Everything happened so sudden, and til now, his close friends, relatives, family, my bf and I still cant believe or accept the fact that he is gone. I just couldn't digest the news when I heard about it first thing in the morning when I woke up. Exactly 1 month ago, we just went to JB together to chill out with some booze and had supper, 2 weeks ago we just went kite flying, and just last week, which was one day before he came down with high fever, we just had supper together.

 

Although he is a friend whom I only got to know for half a year, but it still saddens me much. He is a very helpful, nice, friendly, filial, generous, cheerful and talented young man. At age 20, he just completed his ITE studies, and was suppose to be enlisted tomorrow. He is a talented competitive pool player who had so much potential to be a top player of Singapore, and he suppose to have so much more in life to experience. But yet a deadly little aedes mosquito decides to take his life just like that.

He's the only child and my heart really goes out to his family, especially his Mum. Sending my deepest condolences..

I shall not repeat what the news had already reported. Here is a link to read more about it. 

http://www.channelnewsasia.com/news/singapore/dengue-claims-first-life-in-current-epid/692484.html

Its really unfortunate that out of so many people here in Singapore, of which 8000 are infected with the viral infection, my dear friend and bro here who is only 20 years old, had to be the first fatality of the year.

I'm honesty quite disappointed with the hospital. He had visited them 3 times, and only on his third time there did they diagnosed him as having dengue fever and was admitted. If only they had found out earlier on his first visit instead of just passing him off as having just viral fever and gave him only some medication, considering that Dengue fever is so common these days and they obviously should know that it is on the rise, and should be more thorough and careful about every patient who goes to them with a fever. Probably things would not have gotten so bad if he was treated earlier. But I guess somethings in life are predestined.

 

Indeed, Life is short and unpredictable. One moment we are happily enjoying, next moment we may just leave this world. Rest in peace my dear friend and little bro. May you be ease of all pain and go to a better place. Til we meet again. You will be missed!! 一路好走! Thanks for the nice memories, happy times, and being such a nice friend!

Anyway to ALL my readers, wherever you are, please be reminded that Dengue Fever is really no joke. Don't think of it lightly, as it just took the life of a very young friend of mine. Please be vigilant, and do your part to prevent mosquitoes from breeding. Clear all still water at home from potted plants, drainages and even toilet bowls. if you are gonna be away please cover the toilet bowls and don't leave pails or cups of water lying around for too long. Do our part and we may prevent it from harming more people and taking more lives. In short, just kill any mosquitoes you see cause you wont know which is deadly!!! Take care everyone!! May all of you be safe and healthy!!

Congrats to our lil bro and sis, Fiona & BQ on their Big Day! =)

Hereby wishing our lil bro and sis, Fiona & BQ, a blissful marriage ahead!! Congrats to the both of you once again!! =)

Anyway attended their big day awhile ago, but didn't have time to blog about it~ It was a simple wedding with many of their friends colleagues and relatives present. Indeed everyone looks awesome on their wedding day, and Fiona certainly looks gorgeous! =)

Always happy to attend such a joyous occasion, and I'm looking forward to my very own Big Day too!! =)

Anyway here are some photos taken on that day, currently still waiting for the main photos from the couple~ Will upload them if I do get hold of it~

And after the wedding, Bf and I went to watch the movie, "The Big Wedding" which was a comedy~ Quite funny but I wouldnt say its super fantastic show that I will recommend to watch. Anyway here is another photo after the movie before we end the day! =)

Weight Loss!!

Totally amazing! Just when I finally gained 1kg a few days back, my weight has dropped again when I weigh myself today! If I lose 2 more kgs I'll finally achieve my ideal weight! Wooohooooo~

Over the last few years I've been feeling fat and wanting to lose 7-10kgs  which some of my friends think I'm totally insane as they all think I'm already looking fine. But girls being girls, we are never satisfied with how we look, even if the whole world thinks you're already slim and looking good, somehow we still aint satisfied.

Here's my transformation over the years~ My face was seriously quite round in the past, and my arms and thighs were FAT!! Oh my gosh~ Happy to see the changes, and I'm certainly happy with how I look right now!! =)

Very happy that all my pants and shorts and skirts and some dresses which were tight, have all become loose, or tooo loose for me now~ Time to shop for nice new clothes to fit me now~ =) Happy!! Cuz I can finally wear tight fitting clothes and dresses, and fit nicely into hotpants and skinny jeans~ =))

From Left to Right: My past to my latest photos!

In fact, I do not mind sharing my height and weight with all of you, and the changes over the years~

Age 13 - 164cm, 36kgs

Age 14 - 168cm, 45kgs

Age 15-17 - 169cm, 54kgs

Age 18-20 - 169cm, 58kgs (the peak, the fattest in my entire life to date)

Age 21-23 - 169cm, 54-56kgs (fluctuating within this range for awhile)

Age 24-25(first half) - 169cm, 53-55kgs (fluctuating within this range for awhile)

Age 25(next half)-current - 169cm, 50-52kgs

And my last measured earlier on was at 50kgs. My ideal weight since age 18 has been 48kgs, and I'm really close to achieving it right now!! Yay!! =)

For those who have been asking me how I do it, I honestly dont have any tip to share except to skip meals which is obviously quite bad, and some of you may not be able to do it due to gastric problems~

But when I do eat, my meals are quite irregular, and I seriously have been eating alot of junk food, fast food, chocs. pasta, and lotsa supper! Super unhealthy! So PLEASE DONT do what I do. I'm totally against it, and trying hard to change my eating habits now~ Need to start eating more vege and fruits as my anti-oxidant level is super low! =( But thank goodness my body fats and visceral fat levels are all on the healthy and low side and it shows that my body age is only at 18years old! weeeeeeee~ =)

Still, I would want to preach that eating healthy and exercising is still the best way to lose weight! Eat more fruits and vegetables!! And recently I got to know of some health supplements which have proven to help many people lose weight healthily in the right way with no rebound effect and yet simple! On top of that it helps the body in a good way and makes people look younger! I was so amazed by what I saw, and will likely want to try it out for myself too!! Will share more about that in another post! Meanwhile if you are keen feel free to message me / drop me a comment  / email me if you are interested to find out more!! =)

In anyway, live healthy, eat healthy, be happy! :)